Ben sent one of the girls home this evening without waiting for the rose cereemony. She had taken him aside to ask what was up with the group dates, and what did he get out of them. She had been on three of these group outings already, but nver singled out for a one on one encounter. Ben said he was watching how the women were interacting, and if they were motivated to stay and overcome because of their interest in him. He decided that she wasn't really up to it.
The thing that comes to mind for me is that there are different venues and scenarios for connecting with people and we really should not go outside our comfort zone thinking that it doesn't make a difference.
No comments:
Post a Comment
Note: Only a member of this blog may post a comment.